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writes:please help me ive just split up from my boyfriend im so gutted i love him so much we have spent alot of time together he has alot on his plate i have been with him for a year and a half he has never settled with any of his past girlfriends he gets violent when he drinks but lovley when he doesnt hes been moving in and out of home continuously i am in so much pain coz i miss him i dont know what to do he wants to call it a day but i dont what can i do ive done nothing wrong?????
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reader, puzzled  +, writes (10 August 2007):
 stay away from him or stay friends defo call it a day, DRINK IS NO EXCUSE dont care wat any one says, no matter how drunk any one is they no exactly wat they are doing! why sud you get the back end of his drink, your young free and now single , der is plenty fish in the sea.
good luck in the future.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (9 August 2007):
 We all have a lot on our plates, But we don't get PISSED and beat up people we are suppose to love. Stop making excuses for him, and PLEASE find a guy who loves you, and looks after you, not some NASTY BULLY who thinks its right to communicate with his fists.
Take care and remember what we are advising you, No one desrves that sort of treatment. Rose x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Hun he's got a serious problem and you don't want to be with some one like that trust me, I've lived with an alcohalic and it's not pleasent, infact I know this may sound weird but I think he's done you a big favor by leaving. and mandy7 is right it's not love if he only treats you nice when he's sober, you deserve some one who will love you with all their heart and treat you with respect :)
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Sweetheart,
You dont want to be in this kind of relationship, He hurts you when he drinks I no what thats like and I to thought my heart would break, but as it was just a few bones!!!!!!! and its not love if this is how he treats you nice sober or not hunny he is the one to put the drink to his mouth when he knows how it affects him, you will have much more of a broken heart if you go back, and darling your heart will mend and you deserve someone who treats you good and kind all the time if you want a chat message me ok I do understand what you are going through ive just become harder after my experiences I dont mean to sound as if you have no right to be upset of course you do but take it from me if he wont get help then your just going to keep getting hurt over and over again... PLEASE TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Leave the relationship while you have got the chance. You can never change him and by my own experience things will get worse. Imagine settling down with this guy and starting a family. Would you be able to cope being stuck in the house with a baby all day for him to come home drunk and abuse you? Find yourself a genuine caring guy while you have the chance. One who will respect and love you for who you are, a real man that you never have to be afraid is going to hit you when he is drunk.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (9 August 2007):
 Hi
Why do you want to do something about this? How come you dont want more from life than be with someone that drinks & gets violent? My ex said his ex girlfriend hit him when she got drunk, he thought it was not her fault cuz it was only when she had been drinking, i was like wha????? Are you insane???? This was a 37 year old woman.
Wouldnt it be nice to meet someone that doesnt drink too much & doesnt hit you when hes drunk?
Good luck
C xxxxx
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