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writes:Hi. My bf's hair down there never bothered me, but lately i've noticed that he hasn't really been trimming it like he used to and it's getting really thick. I really don't have a problem with hair, it's just that when i go down on him i'm constantly getting it stuck in my mouth or teeth and it's just gross. I don't want to be mean or seem repulsed by it, but is there any way i can bring it up gently with him? I have no idea what to say other than can you cut your hair? Thanks for your help! Reply to this Question
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reader, reallyveryconfused  +, writes (27 November 2007):
I would make a subtle comment the next time you see him naked about how much bigger he looks with less hair down there! Otherwise, just be honest with him. Just as it has already been said no man will let anything get in the way of you being down there!
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reader, brunettechick  +, writes (27 November 2007):
 ok, i absolutely hate hair...yuck!!! next time yer in bed offer to wax it for him.. be honest with him tell him its a litte to long, he wont take offence to it! they expect us to be clean, so why shouldn't they!!!! good luck!!
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (27 November 2007):
 just be honest.
its like if he had really bad breath all the time...you'd tell him right?
for your own sake and his?
you dont have to be mean or rude about it.
just a simple "honey, can you trim up" would be plenty.
best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): A man who waxes down there is crazy.
Ain't no one going near my bits with a razor or hot wax. No sir-ry.
I don't even understand how women can do it. I mean why do so many women insist of going completely bald. Its nuts, why would you wanna look like a bloody pre-pubescent girl? Give me a landing strip any day over bald. Some hair to remind me I'm screwing a girl over the age of eight.
Flynn 24
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Yeah, the next time you see him naked say, "Getting a little slack on the grooming down there?..." Just make it sound light-hearted, like you're teasing him and hopefully he'll take the hint. You could offer to trim it for him, and turn it into something sensual with candles and music and a little wine. Good luck.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 I can honestly say if a girl asked me to shave my pubes for her, I wouldn't take any offense to that at all.
Just ask him to trim them up a bit because they're getting in the way, I'm sure he'd understand.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (26 November 2007):
 You are probably at an age where you have your own place and therefore, a little more privacy. You could turn this into a little "grooming" party! Set up a nice bath with candles, wine and music. Don't forget the shaving foam, scissors and razor. Once you get started, be very VOCAL about how much you like him well-groomed and BE HONEST - even explain how you have to us, that it does get in your teeth and mouth. NO GUY wants to do anything that would make him receive less oral sex. Be blunt and straight-forward AFTER you have already seduced him into the naughty beauty-salon. He'll probably enjoy it as much as you will and don't be surprised if he wants to trim you too. For safety - go easy on the wine before the scissors and razor AND set VERY VOCAL LIMITS on how much you want shaved yourself. That can be a tad itchy if he gets over-zealous with the razor! Be Good and Be Careful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): Eugh, i love my manly men- tattoos, piercings and muscles yes please!
but hair eugh.
I cant stand it!!!!!!!
I mean we're expected to be perfectly waxed so y the hell arent they!
there's nothing of a bigger turn off than hairy men
its awful wen u go down on them. very un sexy. ah.
Tell him! You have to!!
Umm but be gentle and nice, let your leg hairs grow a little then wen he complains, make a jokey comment about it and he might get the hint!
good luck!
this HAS to be sorted!
my man's a manly man but thank god he's completely hair free¬!!!
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