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writes:Im stuck as to what to do can anyone give me some sound advice. I met this guy 9months ago and well we hit it off straight away and everything is gr8. Well i say gr8 he knows i love him but he wont say it back to me. The basis of the story is that he was married and would you believe my bad luck i met him just 3 weeks after he left her. He had a bad marriage and was unhappy for a long time. He tells me im his rebound and that he doesnt want anything heavy, which for me was fine at the beginning but i have invested 9 months of my life with this guy. He says he doesnt want anything serious but have introduced me to all his family and friends and even took me on holiday, we are spending christmas together, well me and my kids r spending it with him n his family (mum and dad). My problem is that when im with him i feel he wants me and the way he looks at me, well lets just say nobody has ever looked at me that way. But if he cant tell me he loves me, what should i do, is he sacred? i dont know. Please help me as i feel so stupid at the minute and i dont want to lose him. Help.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 If you push him, you will lose him. He is right to use his head at this point in the relationship. He is protecting himself from hurt AND most importantly, he needs to figure out why his marriage failed (what his role in it was) and why he let himself stay miserable for so long. He has a lot to figure out before he commits to anyone.
Actions speak louder than words, hear his actions. Enjoy your holidays.
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