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writes: My exboyfriend and i are talking again and i just said do you want to see a movie later he replied not tonight cos he's dead busy so i said maybe some other time and he said yeah that sounds good. Does this mean he's interested again or just saying it to blow me off? Should I then ask him when or will I let him chose? I'm kinda confused.... Reply to this Question
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (14 September 2010):
 Im just going to refer you to anothere one of my answers:
Why does the ex still want my friendship?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-does-the-ex-still-want-my-friendship.html
Nick.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (14 September 2010):
 He's stringing you along. If he was really interested, he'd suggest a day when he's not busy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2010): It sounds like he is rethinking his decision to break up. I am assuming that it was his decision, since you didn't say it was yours. While he is thinking he might have made a mistake breaking up, it appears he is not certain it was a mistake as he is not ready to see you. It may have been he was freaking out that the relationship was getting more serious than he was ready for, he didn't feel he was in the right place for a heavy commitment, or any number of reasons. The only thing that is certain is that he doesn't want you completely out of his life, but there is no way of knowing his reason. Be careful reading too much into this. I wouldn't give what he is thinking too much consideration, and I wouldn't give him high priority by being readily available any time he wants. Get out, have fun with your friends, date other guys, do things you like. If he is definitely interested, he will let you know. Then you will have the decision to make about whether or not HE is what YOU want.
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reader, SophieF  +, writes (14 September 2010):
This sounds awkward for you. You dont say how the relationship ended or who ended it and that will play a part.
Its impossible to know what he's thinking but it sounds to me like he's not ov erly interested in getting together. If he was he would have suggested an alternative time or said that he would like to go out another time.
Saying that, it's often difficult to tell with some men as they can be so laid back and don't consider about how what they're saying you be interpreted (I've known a few).
I thin you should be wary to avoid getting hurt. Maybe you could consider why you are so interested in seeing him? Are their reasons other than company to see a movie.
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