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writes:I've dated a guy like 2 summers ago.I feel like we broke up for a stupid reason and we never got to finish our relationship.we still keep in contact and I help him time to time.When we was together,that was my baby.I felt so in LOVE .He is a very stuck up and arrogant person and I want to be that girl to change his ways.he don't believe n love but I want him to love me.he gives me on and off signals and I just want to know if he still cares.I do have a boyfriend that I am madly in love with but I still think about my ex sometimes.Is this Wrong?What should I do about my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2010): Forget about your stupid ex and focus on the good relationship you are in now!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 January 2010):
Good choice. Because the other wont' change. Take it from a man, that it takes a huge amount of will to change, and it comes from within.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really do love my boyfriend..I can't see myself without him.these are just thoughts about my ex.I would never get back with him I just want the satisfaction of him changing for me and him still wanting me for once..if I had to choose between them 2 I wouldn't even hav to think! I would choose my boyfriend
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 January 2010):
First of all, you don't love your boyfriend if you are thinking about being the one that changes your ex's way. End it with him so he can find someone who is committed. Then look at your own life and focus on yourself, because your ex isn't the guy for you either. A million women have all tried to change a guy, and have all failed. Though it's sweet that you want to be the one who changes him, it's also naive. He is stuck up and arrogant, and that's it. To think you can change him is the worst thing possible, because you can't. Let#s face it, if he had been the guy for you, he would have changed. He didn't. Neither of these two guys are right for you.
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