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male
age
36-40,
*bear1
writes:I met a girl that is just great. she likes me alot. i like her alot. we have a true connection. there is one problem, she has a boyfriend who she has been with for over four years. they live together along with her sister. she stays up all night texting me. we spend time together. she sends me texts saying she misses me and little kissy faces. her sister says "i have a feeling everything will work out". i want to be with her but shes scared to leave her bf. "i couldnt be happy w u knowing i hurt some1 else"
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 January 2010):
She won't end it either. You're the shoulder to cry on. Frank's advice is sound.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (10 January 2010):
 She does not like you in that way.
She sees you as a friend only, and does not want to hurt you by telling you the truth.
She is also scared that she would lose your friendship, because it is a valuebale resource to her.
She sees you as just another girlfriend...she does not see you as a sexual being capable of being her partner.
If you want to truly get her to leave her bf for you, you have to start spending LESS time with her, and more time dating other girls. When she sees other girls are into you, that is when she MIGHT realize that she should be with you.
I wrote a book entitled, Stop Being Her Emotional Cookie Man: From Friends to Lovers. Right now, you are her Emotional Cookie Man. Stop listening to her problems. You are not her therapist, but that is all she is going to use you for if you do not turn things around.
You can listen to free previews of the audio book of Friends to Lovers and read a free preview of the book at my website: http://www.franktalks.com
-Frank Kermit
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