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*assX21
writes:Please help! about 2 months ago the guy id been going out with for 7 months said he "needed space" after really smothering ME (but whatever). After he made it so I had no one else in my life like friends (I had been a popular, well-adjusted girl before I met him), saying stuff like i was the one to marry and all, he decided to up and leave.I was really, really angry,sad, etc, but gradually "moved on," going out with friends to bars and meeting new guys. Well GUESS WHAT i did better than him socially and in the dating scene...im always having a better time then he is when hes out... yet i still like him. i can afford to be nice to him when I see him out, but ever since he saw me on one date(which went nowhere) he told me "stay away from me..dance with other people." well i did last night after he said do that, and he went CRAZY and made fun of me, calling me a drug user in front of people (i'm not). I called him later left a voicemail and said dont humiliate me in public im tired of it...i guess u can tell i still like him..and b4 my "date" he kinda tried to get back with me, coming out on my birthday and being nice for once, but then said confusing stuff like "we're just friends." omg well what am i supposed to think? is there ANY chance of reconciliation? if not, do i tell him to just leave if he shows up where i am?thanks ppl Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): Stay away from this guy. Move on with your life and if at all possible try and avoid hanging out where you know he might be. You do not need him to embarrass you due to his lack of self controll and jealousy.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (8 June 2008):
 ok from what i can tell he dousnt want you and he dousnt want you to be with anyone else. he wants his freedom but dousnt want you to have yours. so no i dont think you want to waste anymore time on him. try to avoid him and keep him out of you life. more then likely he will want you back in the future but you shouldnt take him back because he will likely hurt you again.
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