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writes: two weeks ago at this party I kissed my friends friend, we went back to a house after the party and things got a little more heated. I never thought anything more of it, but then he started texting me and now im going to get him on friday and im really nervous. Im a shy kinda girl and a would be better if there were going to be lots of us there but its not it just me and him. Have yous any tips to help make me less nervous.Another thing is hes my friends ex, and a dont think she is taken it to well, because she still misses him, a totally forgot when a said yes to him about this but now i feel like i cant cancel, do you think she would be really hurt?thanks for any advice you can give :D
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reader, Farm Girl +, writes (10 December 2009):
I agree with Caring Guy. This could create more problems than it's worth. She's your friend. You're still young, guys will come and go and she'll still be there.
Don't mess with the friends ex's. That's not showing respect.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 December 2009):
My advice would be to let him go. First of all, it sounds like he doesn't really want anything else from you other than sex, and secondly, your friend would be hurt. He might be an ex, but if she still fancies, him you're in for a lot of pain. I think you can afford to let this guy pass by and find another one
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