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*x-BeautyQueen-xX
writes:Help! I Love this boy but he's 16, hes going to be leaving my school in a few months, im 14, but i really love him, ive told him how i feel but he didnt take it serious i told him online n he just said ' aww cute lol hehe' please i really need him, im having a shit time at home and in school, it would reli help knowing hes by myside. how can i like start convosation with him to see if he likes me at all?? Xx-Kate-xX Reply to this Question
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reader, Xx-BeautyQueen-xX +, writes (26 September 2007):
Xx-BeautyQueen-xX is verified as being by the original poster of the question i kno but i can face my problems, i mean i cant get over my dads death.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (23 September 2007):
 your looking for reassurance but what your feeling isn't love, you're focusing your attentions away from your home and school problems which are not the best ideas.
you have to understand that he has let you down gently and you've got to move on. i'm sure he feels flattered by your effections buthe's older and moving so the chances are next to zero.
you need to take time out to understand yourself, you're so young and instead of shying away from your problems, face them head on.
boyfriends will come and go and in time you'll see that.
best of luck
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (19 September 2007):
Those are just hormones, you don't really love him since you don't really know him. On top of that your pressures at home are leading you to look for an escape, which means it is intensifying those feelings for him.
Yes, it might help having him by your side, but it doesn't necessarily mean it HAS TO be him by your side. You want to know if he likes you, I think you probably got it when he blew you off and said "aaawe, how cute." You added a "lol" to that, so it looks like you had that conversation online. He might have thought it was a joke, so you may have to have that talk face to face and then see how it goes.
But there is still that reality that he will be gone in a couple months. If anything happens between you, it will just be a quick fix at best and he might even think it could just be a way to get laid before he moves.
So the bottom line: As much as you like him now, figure out if you can bear being with him and then probably splitting in a couple months. If you seriously want to pursue it, talk to him, yes talk, meaning face to face. Don't ask through a text or IM. They aren't personal and can often be misinterpreted emotionally. If he still laughs it off or says no, find someone else you'd like that will return your love.
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