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writes: What should I do if my bf can not sexually satisfy me?He told me he had sex with a girl 4 times each day last summer, but when he was with me, he was very selfish for almost half year, never consider my needs. I complained and wanted to break up since it totally destoried my self-esteem, I felt I was not attractive in that way, and I felt horrible everytime he turned me on but left me alone after he came. He did not want to lose me so he promised me to improve our sex life. Now he became a little bit concerned but I still can feel he is not that into it. He did not prepare it well such as "sorry I forget to buy condom "etc. He began to say "I love u" stuff which he did not say for half year of our dating. I do not trust a guy like him who always go to bars at least 3 times per week, and we did not have sex for almost 30 days after his one week Asian vacation.Am I too demanding or something is wrong with him? Shall I just move on or work on my patience? I would rather being alone than turned on each time but being left alone by him-besides, several guys around me who want to ask me out(I am not vain saying this) I do love him but I think this really destroy my confidence and my life.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 What jumped out at me was not having sex for 30 days after his vacation. I don't many men sho would be happy with that. I do think most men would be looking forward to sex after being apart. I'd be really interested to know if something went on there.
Any man that reaches orgasm and leaves his partner unsatisfied is very selfish. For a man, seeing his partner reach orgasm is a much pf a pleasure as reaching it for himself. That makes a man feel he's done his job properly. It makes him feel, for lack of a better word, MANLY. It's just part of our basic make up.
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