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writes:Okay, so my ex and i started talking again about a month ago. i was so ecstatic because it had been 5 months since he had talked to me (i messed up really bad with him and he broke up with me. but he's forgiven me for it and says he loves me and that he has since before we broke up.) things were going really great for about 2 and a half weeks. he talked to me every day and wanted to know how my day was and how things were with me, etc. but then he started "skipping" days and wouldn't talk to me. he'd apologize and said he was busy or whatever and i was fine with that.but now he hasn't talked to me in almost a week. he wont reply to my emails (i'm not 100% sure he's read them, though). i just don't know what to do. i love him so much. i can't let him go. am i pushing him away? why isn't he talking to me? please help. =/
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 April 2010):
You've forgotten that he's your ex. He can do as he wishes. It could be a case that there is another girl somewhere, or maybe he's not forgiven you as he thought. Give him the space and let him come back to you. Don't forget he's an ex now, he's not anything more.
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reader, sravyax +, writes (15 April 2010):
Dont worry! i had the exact same problem but it wwas wid my boyfriend. It does hurt and confuse you becasue you want dont want to loose them again! But my best advice would be y dont you send him one last email or something and as the say leave the ball in his court. At the end of te email ask a question like a important question like wht mad you start talking to me again or something? and then dont reply or talk to him untill he does.And i know that is hard not to do it./ I suffered so much pain not talk to my boyfriend but to take your mind of it join a club or do something new it will make you feel better as well. An if this guy replies you know he still like you but if doesn't you'll have to face facts he doesn't! but im im sorry if it sounds mmean but your just gonna have to try and get over him if he doesn't like you! good luck with it anyways hope my avice was helpfull! xx
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Don't panic ! Call him up and speak to him to find out if everything is O.K over there. Give him some space.
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