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anonymous
writes:my bf's mates are not the nicest of people,they're immature and dont have any faith in mine and my bf's relationship at all and its the fact that they express that towards me thats annoying. When i tell them to stop, they say im reading to much into it! Even my bf's spoken to them and just says that they wont understand being in lovewhat can i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): try having another word with your boyfriend. tell him how much this is getting to you. his friends just sound jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend, maybe they want a relationship with someone and seeing you two is annoying for them or maybe they think that your taking away their friend from them. don't let them mess up your relationship. they just want attention. hope this helps.
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reader, desirewhitefire  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 If you're looking for universal approval, you're going to be looking for it the rest of your life. You also need to grow up a little. Don't stoop to their level and whine about them the way they whine about you. Don't ever tell your boyfriend that's it's either going to be you or his friends, because most likely, he's going to pick the people he's known the longest, and you're going to look like a control freak.
I have been your age before, and I had a boyfriend who's friends didn't like me. I told him to pick me or his best friend, and guess what, we broke up a couple months later. Please, don't get offended by any of this, it's life, and when you get older, you'll look back and think of how stupid the whole situation is, and if you're still with him, you'll be thankful you held your tongue.
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