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writes:It's been almost a year since I have met him. First we started off with a lot of fights and stopped talking for a while but he seemed interesting to me and I made a contact with him again. The second time we got closer, we texted each day and he asked me to call him. I wasn't really eager but I accepted. He knew much about me but I didn't really know him. For a long time I haven't been smiling but he changed that. We had many topics in common. We both had free time and we started daily talks. It triggered my obsession over him. I told him.anyone I know, everyone respected how much I was into him. But deep down I had a bad feeling, the happiness wouldn't last too long. I am a sad person in general but he was my happiness and the ideal guy I want. He changed his location after some months and I was disappointed. I know I was expecting a lot of impossible things but I got upset then. We became closer, showed us our faces... Everything was great. Every single thing he did I adored him. He changed. He was busy, he had a new life. Which I can't accept. And I feel like I was being played. I was never cared before him. Now I can't get over him. We talk rarely but my heart is broken... It's not the same. Everyday I remember each detail on his face and pray to God to get him back. I don't know how to forget him. Please help me... :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did have many hopes because the situation was right. The countries we lived in were neighbors at first. And I usually asked him if it tires him to see me like this, but he liked listening to me and cheer me up sometimes. He also "looked like" he cared much about me, asked where I was, doing what should I do or not etc etc. So it's normal for me to feel it.
Even people with huge depression or some mental health disorder do relationships so my sadness wasn't the case. Actually I never knew the reason for his changing but I suspect of a new gf
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2016): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did have many hopes because the situation was right. The countries we lived in were neighbors at first. And I usually asked him if it tires him to see me like this, but he liked listening to me and cheer me up sometimes. He also "looked like" he cared much about me, asked where I was, doing what should I do or not etc etc. So it's normal for me to feel it.
Even people with huge depression or some mental health do relationships so my sadness wasn't the case. Actually I never knew the reason for his changing but I suspect of a new gf.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (12 October 2016):
 Why are you "a sad person"? You sound to have pinned all your hopes of happiness of this one guy, who you hadn't even met in person.
I suspect he probably felt frightened at the intensity of your feelings towards him and your impossibly high expectations of him.
You need to get out and meet new people. Get to know them as friends first before investing in them emotionally. And perhaps sort out the sadness you are feeling so that someone else does not feel the burden of having to make you happy?
Good luck.
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