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writes:I was seeing this man for 7 months who is divorced and younger than me..His ex has decided she wants to try to work things out..he has decided to go back to try. How can he say he loves me and want to try to work it out with her..Our age is 20 years different. he says he wants to still see me and talk but I can not do that. what is your opinion. Should I wait for him to decide?
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (27 July 2009):
 In short, find someone else. Stop talking to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): i think he have made his cohice, his ex over you. although it hurts so much, you need to move on. one thing you need to relook at is , find someone closer to your own age. if he is younger fine, but be realistic. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe male reader lonely two hit the nail on the head..with how I am feeling. Thanks that helped alot hearing someone vocalize what I was thinking.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (26 July 2009):
I think that him seeing you still would confuse the situation more than it needs to be, you ask the question yet i think you know the answer. If he really wanted it to work with his ex then A) she wouldnt be his ex and B) he wouldnt be asking this of you. Hes obviously secretive and manipulative all the things you avoid when looking for any kind of relationship never mind a serious one.
Right now neither his head nor his heart are in this.
Walk away, avoid the confusion and hurt, your wise enough to know this type of man a mile off, find someone whos worthy of your love and time, let him move on and play his games hurting people. Walk away and show him you dont make the same mistake twice, unlike him.
Best of luck
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reader, Starlights +, writes (26 July 2009):
 if he has chosen his ex over you walk away.
he shouldnt be confused, if he loves you he would have picked you first already.
as he's hesitating i would suggest he is unclear in his heart about what he wants, and still immature,
so walk away.
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