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anonymous
writes:Please help. My boyfriend has been begging me to give him a hand job. He says that I don't meet him half way when having sexual fun. I told him I don't like it but then he seemed disappointed. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): have you given handjobs before? does he know this? if the answers yes then no wonder the guys annoyed. if the answers no then tell him to wait
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): Don't do anything that you don't want to do. Don't get pressurised either....
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2008): Dont do something that you dont want to do. If he is disappointed then tough, you are young and this may be something that you will grow to like in time, but right now, do what you want and if it isnt what he wants then tough.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 January 2008):
 You are very young and it's not "sexual fun", it's a form of having sex. If you aren't comfortable doing this, tell your boyfriend NO. Your body, your rules. It isn't always necessary to "go to the next step", especially if you aren't happy about it. AND if your boyfriend truly cares about you, he'll stop pressuring you to go faster than you want to. Stick to your guns. Tell him NO and make sure that he hears you.
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