A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I asked a question over a year ago about being in love with a really close family friend but who had a girlfriend. Small things had been happening between us and he did say he really liked me but most said stay clear when hes taken. well about a month ago he split up with his girlfriend...so what do I do now??? I hardly see him as it is, do I allow something to happen properly now or was I only somethin he wanted when he needed a change from his girlfriend. He did text me after he broke up with his girlfriend asking me to meet him but I couldnt make it, do you think he might feel rejected by me now for not going? Id take the plunge but we are all the same group of friends and I dont want to end up looking like a fool!
View related questions:
broke up, split up, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, IntoxicatingLastBreath +, writes (18 January 2008):
 Hmm..if i were you, i'd get in contact with him sure..meet up and stuff..but only as friends..he needs to know your not second best.
So work on things if you really want to and you still have feelings for him.
But make sure you take it slowly..don't do anything more than just ebing friends with him for a while..if your scared incase he meets someone else then let him know you still like him..just wanna take things slow.
And if he doesn't respect that then he may not be as great as you think.
I hope things work out for you.
And don't worry you really wouldn't look a fool for seeing him and stuff, it's only natural to want to, and i'm sure it'd be the same with other people in your situation.
Hope i've helped and feel free to contact me at any time.
~Krissy [x]
|
