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writes:my boyfriend, well my ex boyfriend now, we'v been on and off 4 a year now, and throughout the realtionship hes cheated on me 5 times with 4 different girls, but iv done some wrong things, but iv never cheated on him! but usually evrytime he does it i take him back, wich i feel is why hes thinks this time id take him bk easily, but this time its different i think i know hes gone too far, like i havnt been asnwering his calls or textes, and hes been crying, wiich he never doe coz hes not that type of boy =|, but i jus dont know what to do , wether to take him back or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): He's trying every trick in the book to win back your affections since they worked in the past!
Be stronger than that and move on with your life! You don't need that crap in your life! What you do deserve is some one who knows how to treat and respect you properly which isn't what this guy has beend doing!
Don't take him back - do you really want to go thro all this again the next time he does it? I don't think so
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 No hun, do not take him back.
He's had his chance... he's had a million chances! And he's blown all of them. He should accept that it's over because of him cheating. You shouldn't keep taking back someone because then he'll feel it's okay if he keeps doing it - knowing that you'll take him back.
My ex boyfriend cried and begged me to stay - he literally got on his knees when he had cheated and I for my own sakes, I had to tell him no and walk out on him.
I know how much it hurts but you are worth more than that and can't allow yourself to keep being dragged down by him.
Keep away from him, I feel sure that in a few years, you'll look back and say " Thank God I got away when I did!" I know I did.
Take care xx
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