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writes:I just took my bf back and now i feel as if he's cheating. Every time we're around each other, we're always arguing or it's just silent. When he leaves out of the room to go to the bathroom or anywhere else, he takes his phone. When he leaves it around me, he locks it. He even changed his password on his laptop for me to not get on it. I don't know whats going on but i feel as if he's cheating. He cheated before and i caught him 4 times. We've been together for 2 years on and off and this is the worst relationship i ever been in. Now when i mention to him about it, he gets mad and ask me do i just want to call us off for life. Can anyone please give me answers on what is going on and what do i need to do! PLEASE! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): If he has already cheated on you 4 times in 2 years then you will know the signs by now. If its the worst relationship you have ever had, i would ask yourself why then, do you keep taking him back? By continually taking him back, you have taught him thats it ok to cheat because you will always been around. You have taught him to take you for granted and not appreciate you. Some guys make the mistake of cheating once, realise it was a mistake and never do it to you again. But your guy realised early on that it doesnt matter if he gets caught cheating because 'good ole faithful you' will always be there. So the real question you need to be concerned about is why do you keep having him back? Why dont you feel you deserve better? When you can understand what drives you to keep trying with him, i think you will find it easier to gather the courage to leave him once and for all. Because you truely deserve better but it wont happen for you when he is in the way and taking up your precious time. He really isnt worth it you know.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Just leave him. He's obviously no good for you and he'll just keep hurting you again and again. You don't want to, nor should you, spend the rest of your life with an untrustworthy person like him, knowing that, where exactly is this relationship going if its the WORST you've ever been in?
I hope that helps.
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