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writes:He is back and I think I've fallen for him again! The guy I used to like for 2 years ignored me and acting like a major b*****d to me so I learnt how to get over him.Now he is back, he has apologised sincerely I'm afraid my feelings have come rushing back. Is there anyway to stop this? I don't want to be in that place again as a love drunk fool especially when he can't reciprocate what I feel because he is "straight".I say that he is "straight" because we kissed once at a party that we was barely drinking at, also another time he came behind me put his hands on my hips and kissed my neck, which surpised me because one of his mates was there. A friend of mine asked him once that if I made a move on him what would he do and he said that he wouldn't mind.In my opinion he is bisexual... But that might be my hopeful biasednes... But that besides the point. All I want to know is if I should let my feeling run wild or try to change them before they get too strong for me to manage again.Side note; I know he is an idiot and I am for liking him but he is so sweet when it's just me and him but he has an ego with his friends. I just don't want to get stuck.
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (17 November 2011):
I find once i'm over someone I never go back. If hes out of your system then I wouldn't worry. Don't waste your time with those who waste yours!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell these days I can't just see him all the time like I used to, he used to live realitivly close and be in alot of my classes but now he has moved a few towns away (still at same school) so being away isn't a problem it's when he sees me in school... Obviously these feelings stir up and like today he started talking to me and I was about to go but he called my name again to carry on a conversation that obviously ended but he wanted to keep talking.. That happens alot :S.He also used to walk me home or into town because it was on his way and he said do I want him to but then he realised he has to get the cab home. Now I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place... On one hand, I think I love him and I would love for something to happen but on the other hand incant stay waiting or hoping for something that probably won't happen.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 November 2011):
 The best thing for you to do is run a mile. You went through the heartache before and you managed to heal yourself from this and get over him, if you fall for him a second time it is just going to be a whole lot worse. You know deep down you will get hurt and that he is a guy that acts different around his friends. It is almost guaranteed that he will use you and abuse you and leave you heart broken again. Break off all contact now while you still can and thank yourself lucky.
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