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Does he have feelings for me or is he just tryin' to sleep with me?

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Question - (16 November 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *rinityHunter writes:

So some of yu may have already read the question about the guy I called D. But other things have been crossing my mind. He acts as if he might like me. Yea, according to people who answered my other question about him, he finds me "sexually attractive" but does he like me as a person too? He always goes out of his way to talk to me and is always tryin' to make me laugh. Does he have feelings for me or is he just tryin' to sleep with me??? And what if he asked me out? Should I say yes or is everything in our relationship gonna revolve around sex??? Help!!!

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (21 November 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIs your gut instinct telling you that he is only looking for sex? If that is what you fear well then all you need to do is say no to him if he tries it and if he pressures you or else ignores you well then it is clear that it is only sex he is after. But as long as you don't give in to him then I guess it is worth the risk. So just go with the flow and see what happens.

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A female reader, trishy909 South Africa +, writes (17 November 2011):

There's a lot going on here but I think most of it has to do with you personally. What makes you think he just wants you for sex? Is he known to be a player? If not then start believing that he actually does like you for who you are. Attraction is the base of most relationships but there's more to a relationship than how they look. If he is to ask you out I say go for him but since you're worried he's after sex, don't sleep with him. Take things very slowly and see where it all ends.

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