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writes:What should I reply to this guy who last year broke my heart (he doesn't know that) he said he was single when he actually had a girlfriend and he never replied to my text at the time. He has got in touch asking about me. I want him back in my life but not sure what to say, don't know if he is still with this girl. Don't want to come across eager but don't want him to break my heart again and or him to think I've forgot about the fact he lied.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2011):
Thing is, you can't be sure he doesn't have a girlfriend now and isn't just playing you yet again. Or maybe they split up and now he's just out to use you. I think you'd be inviting trouble if you allowed this man back into your life to be honest. You need to really think about this. He lied to you about something very, very important and broke your heart without so much as a single thought for you.
I don't think you can trust this man. He's not a man who's going to care that you were hurt. He's not a man who will tell you the truth. He's just a man who will lie to your face. He won't care you haven't forgotten that he lied, because he'll figure that if you take him back after what you did, he can get away with it.
I wonder why so many women consider liars like this? Why are you suddenly thinking that it's okay to have someone like this in your life? Why are you willing to accept this level of treatment and disrespect?
You can do better than a liar.
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