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Should I stay or should I back off?

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Question - (30 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2011)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is a very complex question and I hope it gets posted soon!

I don't know what you'd call my relationship with a guy i,m dating. I at first assumed we'd be boyfriend and girlfriend but he doesn't want a relationship. We meet each other weekly or maybe 2 or 3 nights a week. We cuddle, kiss and other stuff though I haven't slept with him yet. I feel like i,m falling in love with this guy coz he's so nice to me and he's really caring but he's a workaholic there are nights when when we go on a date he's either finishing cars or working in the fields or doing jobs for friends. Like don't get me wrong I don't care what we do on dates as long as we're together.

I don't know if he realizes that i,m starting to fall for him. I don't know what to do should I stay in this relationship thing or should I back off?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011):

If he has told you he doesn't want a relationship, I would be very cautious. He's probably not going to change his mind about that, and he probably things you understand this because he has been open about it. If that's okay with you, then that's fine, but don't expect it to be going anywhere.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2011):

Give it time. Maybe he might feel the same way soon or he might be hiding his feelings just give it time rushing into it might make him feel uncomfortable

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