A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hey ive been dating this girl for 3 months. When i met her she already had plans to go to australia for a working holiday for 5 months. We were just gunna keep it chill but we ended up hitting it off real quick. We're now madly in love with each other. She ended up going cause i couldnt stop her from following her dreams. Shes been there a month and i miss her so much and get scared shes gunna hook up with ppl down there. Ive become super insecure about our relationship but never wanna lose her. She always tells me she loves me and were going to be fine. I dont think i trust her as much as i should. And it doesnt feel healthy. Id go down there but im still in school. What should i do?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (8 January 2008):
You need to learn to trust her.If she is not into you , even if you go there to be with her would be useless.
You can chat everyday in skype or online. This is like a test of your love.If you pass, then she is yours. 5 months will pass very soon.
If you appear insecure and needy , it can turn her off,quit worrying . If she belongs to you , she will come back to you.
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