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*arlgoo
writes:I have not told my gf that I love her yet but I did tell her that I wanted to kiss her even though we kissed one time but she thought it was too soon. I told her I wanted to kiss her at homecoming and she said "Yeah i really wanted to kiss you too, but my parents said I should'nt. What should we do? She is 14 and I am 16. Previous article with more information:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-this-sounds-ridiculous-but-i-want.html#provide_answer
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reader, karlgoo +, writes (7 October 2008):
karlgoo is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks this helps a lot
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): She is two years younger than you, thats a lot when your a teenager. She's not going to be like sixteen year old girls, she needs more time.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Her parents are probably just trying to protect her, which is understandable, even if they do seem to be going a wee bit over the top.
How long have you been dating, and how soon is 'too soon'? If you've been dating more than maybe a month, then I say go for it. Lean over and plant one on her, and just refrain from it when you're around her parents. They'll come around eventually, once they realize that it's just a kiss and you aren't going to impregnate their baby girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): No hun, its not too soon. Most people have had their first kisses by their teenage years. It is not like you are all over each other or something, but you may want to refrain from displaying this affection in front of your parents. I know that my husband and I wouldn't even get too touchy feely when we were in front of out parents in high school. Heck it was still a bit uncomfortable till we got married and that was 5 yrs after high school!! Lol. But I will just say its very refreshing though that you are being your age and not aiming for adult things such as sex. I think its wonderful that you have someone so special to you...young love is always so wonderful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): Just kiss her.
A kiss is not sex and most times doesn't lead to it.
They are some seriously strict parents.
Flynn 24
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reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Wait until the two of you are alone, lean over & gently kiss her.
If she asks you why you did that afterwards & reminds you that her parents don't want that happening, then tell her that you just had too, you couldn't wait any longer & if you love her, be sure and tell her that as well.
All parents are going to tell their children they shouldn't kiss... it's a parent thing - trying to protect what's theirs. But a kiss won't hurt - so, kiss the girl. :)
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