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writes: I live and work in London and have a relationship with a girl in Cebu with a view to marriage. I hope to come back later this year around August to get married. Problem is that her ex-boyfriend keeps on texting her and this causes me to get irritated despite her re-assurances. I am in The Philippines now, but due to return to London next week. Can you suggest any ideas.? Am losing confidence about us.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (7 January 2006):
 My question on this is... Does the Ex- Boyfriend know that you two are going to get married ? Has she told him?
If so, the Ex must be very thick skinned in not taking the hint.It may be a good idea to give him a call...
I think it is time for you to confront him and let him in on the seriousness of his inteference and tell him to butt out, that his communications with your partner are not appreciated and that it is causing problems.
If all is innocent with his intentions, I am sure he will understand and back down. I wish you luck, dont take this nonsense any longer.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (7 January 2006):
 Have you told her how this makes you feel? If you make her aware that this is hurting you, and giving you doubts about the relationship, she should stop, out of respect for your feelings. I feel it is something she shouldn't be doing in the first place. Once you have told her, that should clear the air. Communication is the main ingredient for a good relationship.
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