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writes:Hi I need help. My fiancé and I have been having problems, because from what I have witnessed her father won't let her live her own life as he is a control freak and a bully. Over a year ago he threw me out of my fiancée house after he threatened to kill me and ever since then I've been scared to visit her to see her or spend time with my son and step son. I have a number of health problems and I have suffered from depression which now my GP thinks is bipolar, I also have crohns disease and epilepsy and as a result of all that has gone on my crohns disease has gotten subsequently worse. I get very irritable and then can very angry and become very verbal but never physical. I went off at my fiancé and there isn't a minute of every day where I don't regret shouting at her because it ended with me being arrested and charged with breach of the peace, I was given a 6 month good behaviour bond but no mention of not contacting her or going near her, but the duty solicitor I had a court recomended that I dint comunicate with her unless through a solicitor for my on safety. I wanted to sort things out with my fiancé and try to save our relationship and our family, but I have done what the solicitor sugested and got a solicitor to deal with things. He has wrote to her on my behalf but I feel as though it's not what I want her to hear or read it to formal or legal if you will I wanted it to come from the heart. I just want to talk to her. Everytime the phone goes that it is her, I get chills when the mail gets put through the door. I want her to know that I'm sorry and can we try again. I just love her so much. I'm now thinking about contacting her, but in one hand I'm scared to and on the other I don't care, my mum, dad and sister won't contact her for me because they don't want me getting into trouble, I just want to talk to her and see my son and step son. What should I do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (19 March 2010):
 Questions:
How old are you?
How old is your fiance?
How old is your son?
How old is her son?
Why is she living with her dad?
Are you taking medications for your bipolar?
Comment: I think you are minimizing what happened between you and fiance. Why? Because you got in a whole lot of trouble. Tell me the truth about what happened and I might be able to help you. Let me know. I care.
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