A
male
age
30-35,
*N
writes: ummm i like this one girl and i always hang out with her after school and well everytime that i'm near her it kills me that i can't tell her how i feel because well i dont know how she would respond to it since her dream is to go to Japan one day and go to an art school there etc. and this holds back my hearts innermost desire cuz that dream of her's could possibly affect her decision in a huge way as to her response to me confessing my feelings. What should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (19 September 2008):
It's been almost a year, did you ever tell her how you feel? I hope so. :)
A
male
reader, DN +, writes (9 November 2007):
DN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell like a day ago she asked me what i wanted for Christmas (i don't think that it's anything because she is always nice...but then it could be something idk XD )and i didn't really answer her question and this kept on going for a while and i sometimes would slip in the answer "you" but i would also give a sort of laugh...so as to make it a hint but not really a confession...anywayz today we were holding each others hands and she was like leaning on my shoulder with her head and i semi-head leaning on her...soooo does this mean anything? or is it just some random thing?
P.S. I have been walking her to her house for the last 2 days
...............................
A
female
reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (8 November 2007):
Consider the fact that maybe she wants to go there because she doesn't have anyone to love her where she is now ... or so she may think.
If you don't tell her, she will never know and you will never know if you could have had that kind of chance with her.
I think you should find the right time to tell her and if she doesn't want you that way, try your best to remain friends and know that you at least tried.
...............................
|