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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and i have been living together for about 3 months now.I recently found 2 dildos she had hidden in our closet.She hasn't told me about them.They are both larger than me in size.What should i do?I dont know how i should feel about it.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 If you were to be able to purchase the "dream-girl" of your choice, would it have her same dimensions and if not should she be offended?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): This is a recurring theme. It runs contrary to the usual line of "size is not important" that you often read here. In fact the subtle sub-text from women is that it is important. Women tend to forget that 50% of guys will be average (or heaven forbid!) less than average. Hence the defensive questions/comments we see from men about slack vaginas and the like. It has always been easy to see whether a man is under-equipped. Equally, there is no no easy defense for the women who is told she is less than tight. Almost like a game of psychosexual chess.Checkmate!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): When men look at larger breasts - and I mean much larger than the average woman - us girls are just supposed to accept that its all fantasy.... Maybe you should do the same - after all they are just manmade, battery operated stimulators. Don't feel inadequate - love is much more important.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Suppose she bought the dildoes because she wants something larger. You can't grow a larger penis. I know that some people offer creams and exercises, but I think we can bet that, if those worked at all, everyone would have penis of at least ten inches. And even in that case you would need to know how to use that beast; it doesn't do much on its own. So I agree with the Uncle.
I can speculate as to why she bought the dildoes. Maybe she likes a little masturbation once in a while. Perhaps she sometimes is not fully satisfied and, instead of telling you, she keeps those dildoes handy. In any case, try to do a few more, wilder things, and she will appreciate it anyways.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (11 December 2008):
 Hello my dear,
Keep in mind that dildos come in many shapes and sizes, but most of them are on the bigger side. It's a challenge to find a 5.5 inch, maybe 2-3 inch around dildo in a porn store nowadays. They're all monsters! So don't think that she intentionally bought dildos that were bigger than you, maybe her options were limited.
She hasn't told you because she keeps her masturbation private, apparently. There's no need to get upset... this isn't a rebellion against you or an insult to your size. Just like if you view porn with girls who have a bigger booty or breasts than your lady. You still love your woman #1, right?? Bigger isn't always better...
A live penis is ALWAYS better than a plastic one. No worries!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Short of taking a potato peeler to them, I doubt there's much you can do. Just remember it's what you do with it that counts - not the size of it.
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