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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy... And so does my best friend. He gives us mix signals . She came up to him and ask if he could say happy birthday to me. He said that he was just about to do that and after the day he came up to me a said happy birthday. My friend was behid me and said that he was looking her the whole time, but truthly he was looking at me. Afterwards he came up to me and said happy birthday to me again! And after my friend said bye to him and he looked up and said bye to ME. After school ended we flocked him. I made the birds and my friends mom drived us. When he caught us he looked at me a lot when he was talking and smiled. A few days later my bff asked him who he likes and "G2g" and then "yes u". I got sad and texted him if he dislikes me and he texted:U don't bug me... I like talking to u.... Ur someone from my school who understands me and u talk to me. So, I do not hate u, dislike u, or anything else... I didn't understand it. 2 weeks pasted and we went to this bowling party and he would always try to avoid me and talk to my BFF. At the end of the bowling party we looked at each other and he smiled... I really like him!! Help! Idk who he likes! He text that he likes one of us! Which one?!?!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Unfortunately, he is too young to know how much trouble he is in. If he knew he would pack his bags and move to Australia. He really thinks of both of you as "just friends". He doesn't realize that he is playing with your hearts. He may be catching on that there is a fight brewing between you and your BFF. He made a grave tactical error in saying he liked "one" of you. Now if he declares for one of you it will cause a rift in your BFF relationship. That is why he should go away until you two cool off. If you want to be his friend cool off first. Then in a few years when he is ready he will remember you as the sanest of the pair. For now Boys come and go. You BFF will stick with you through high school.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (24 June 2010):
 He wrote "I do not hate u, dislike u, or anything else"? That sounds as though he was very careful to sound neutral as to how he feels about you. Yet he told your girlfriend he liked her? Oh dear, my interpretation of this is that he likes her.
Now, he IS young, right? One thing I remember of my teen years is that there was a lot of drama, and a lot of changes. Including who liked whom on any given day or week or month. So be patient, don't be too sad, stay upbeat and busy and I'll bet that everything will be different in a few weeks. You may find another boy who is WAY more interesting than this one.
Good luck!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 June 2010):
 He said he likes her, and then told you he doesn't like you that way (basically). He likes your friend, sorry. No mixed messages here. He's just being nice to you, especially because you're friends with the girl he likes and he has to be on your good side.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (24 June 2010):
 Didn't he already tell your friend that he liked her in a msg?
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