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writes:Help! I'm really scared right now. My girlfriend and I have never had sex, but I went over to her house and she gave me a handjob and a blowjob. I came in her mouth, then we went to wash our hands just in case. I fingered her shortly after. She has missed her period for a while now. Is she pregnant? I'm really stressing out. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): That story brings back some memories!
I went through much the same thing when I was about your age. My girlfriend and I had never had sex (both virgins at the time) but we were into everything else. Then she missed her period and started freaking out about being pregnant - which, of course, was biologically impossible. She was absolutely beside herself with worry and no amount of logic or reasoning could console her. Eventually I just agreed with her and said that yes, she probably was pregnant. And that in honor of that other famous virgin birth we would name the baby Jesus. And that she should prepare for fame because there would be statues of her all over the world.
And this was no dumb slut we're talking about. She was by far the smartest girl I ever dated, and is now an executive at some financial services firm.
So I say to not worry, your girlfriend is not pregnant. (Which of course you know by now...) She's merely suffering from a widespread malady that is common in your age group called Teenage Drama Syndrome.
The side effects of having TDS as a teenager are usually temporary and reversible, but as an adult the syndrome breaks up marriages, families, friendships and wrecks careers. So once you're 22 or so start avoiding the shit out of those people. Until then it's just a part of being young. And stupid.
(Man, that was 32 years ago. And to think, Jesus Junior would just now be starting his ministry...)
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Well done for washing your hands and being extra cautious =]
Highly, highly HIGHLY unlikely that she's pregnant. She could be stressed or not very well or maybe her period just hasn't come for no reason (this can happen.)
Just to take the weight off your mind, when her period comes back, ask her to go on the pill.
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reader, rambini +, writes (18 April 2010):
 1) if you both washed your hands there would be no sperm to transfer
2) sperm can only live in the air for around 7 seconds anyway, and im assuming "shortly after" was probably more than that
3) if she has missed her period for a while, why has she not got it checked out sooner?
in conclusion, i think shes probably just stressing which can make girls periods irregular. just get checked in case, then stop worrying.
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reader, Isa123 +, writes (18 April 2010):
 I had an old friend who went through the exact same thing.
She gave her boyfriend a handjob and then proceeded to finger herself. Her period was late the next month and I even bought her a pregnancy test. It came out negative and her period came the next week. She was stressing out too much that it made her period late.
And during this age periods tend to switch every few months. I wouldn't worry about it too much.
Good luck to you!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 Only a pregnancy test will reveal if she is pregnant or not. She is late probably due to stress and worries.
If you washed your hands, the chances of getting her pregnant is very low.
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reader, KiwiBina +, writes (18 April 2010):
It is highly unlikely that you've made her pregant from that.
SHE is the one that gave you a handjob and blowjob so the sperm would've been on HER hands, not yours.
How long has she been missing her period though?
Is she stressed out about all of this too, because if she is stressing, that can actually be why she is delayed with her period.
Her age can also effect how consistent her period is; ask her if she normally gets it at the same time each month.
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