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writes:im really getting fed up of this guy i know. he knows i like him but i feel like his nurse maid. if he ever has problems im there. if hes ever financially stuck im there yet hes aware i like him but doesnt treat me in a great way. he goes on all these seedy chat sites and flirts with girls and enjoys telling me and watching my reaction, never texts when hes upset me and expects me to chase him. i have been a loyal person to him and he treats me so bad why ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): If you are loyal to people who treat you poorly, you will always be treated poorly. It's your loyalty that is misplaced so it will never be rewarded. He treats you bad because that's how he treats people and if you always expect to be the special exception, your sense of entitlement will blind you from this basic common sense.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2011): My advice is move on. My friend went through this and was used by a guy, she was vulnerable and the most loyal person I know. He is using you and you deserve better. There is a guy out there who will treat you like the princess you are, my friend found her prince and I know you will find yours. best of luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 August 2011):
Because you're making the mistake of letting him. There is a point at which you have to accept that someone is treating you badly, and that you need to move on.
You should just move on from this guy.
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reader, Odds  +, writes (26 August 2011):
 He treats you badly when you're loyal because... when he treats you badly, you stay loyal. You are rewarding his behavior, and thereby enabling it.
I'm not certain if you're "officially" dating from the text of the question, but I would suggest finding a better guy. Have some standards.
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reader, Makinde Stephen  +, writes (26 August 2011):
Ask yourself this question, does he love me or like me or want sex from me?. You know these between love and sex.
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