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writes:help.ive shown nude pics of my girlfriend to a friend.we are no longer going out.but i feel really devestated showing nude pics of my girl friend to a friend.i feel as if i gave up my love away to someone else.help. Reply to this Question
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 we are agony aunts not magic fairys we canot take it back for you, you did it you learn from it or you dont simple as that thankyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am not 35. i am 21. and i have apologized.
anywho none of these helpful replys and flames really help my situation. as i said i feel as if i gave up my love to someone else i need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim actually 21. and i have apologized to her. and i said i showed my friend the pics. you can view pictures on adigital camera on the lcd screen. and thats how he saw.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Good lord, you are in your thirties! I assumed this was a teenager writing! How could you do something so incredible stupid, selfish and immature? Have you apologized to her and given her every single copy of the pics back? If you haven't yet, you absolutely must. No joking. If you really do feel any remorse or have a spek of humanity in you, you will apologize to her and give her every photo back - don't keep any digital copies or anything. Your behaviour was disgusting for a man your age who ought to know better. You've no excuse.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 you should never have disrespected her like that - imagine how she would feel knowing that you were showing pics that were for your eyes only to other ppl? she would be devestated.
get rid of the pics, ask your friend not to mention it to anyone, and learn from this.
you know that you made a mistake so move on learn from your mistakes and try and grow up.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (16 July 2008):
Yeah, well you disrespected your girl and now you feel bad.
The fact you feel remorse is a good thing and it might teach you not to go round showing your mates private things again.
Learn from this, that is all we can do in life.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (16 July 2008):
Hi Hunny
I cant really say much sweetheart to make you feel better as you are now feeling the hurt from your actions, I suppose when you showed your friend the photos you were mad, upset and thought it would be a laugh. Its not though hunny when you look back on it as you know. This is a learning experience for you and you wont be doing that again. I do want to make you feel better the only thing I can think of to say love is that because you now feel the way you do it taught you a lesson one that cant be taken back and hopefully you can come through this a more understanding person. If your mate says anything to you tell him the truth you feel like shit you wish you had never done it, I can understand your pain hunny as we very often dont think before we do certain things we are not perfect, But it lifes way of teaching us...I hope you feel better soon and everything turns out ok for you...TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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