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writes: Ok I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years 7 weeks ago. She was a bit younger than me and wanted to explore life. Last week she wrote me two emails asking for me back how all she thinks of is me, all she wants is me and how much she deeply loves me.I didnt welcome her with open arms (as she has been very manipulative in the past, accussed me of cheating on her when I didnt, and also accused me of giving her an STI when my test came out all negative) I was pretty firm with her, telling her that if we were to try again everything must be based on fact initially and not emotion.So while she was sending me those emails she was flirting with another guy.Because I didnt welcome her with open arms she told me I was being rude to her etc.Anyway, 2 days after her sending me the last and very convincing email, she gets together with a guy. I have decided to stop doing this, but I have her passwords, I read an email between her and her mother, stating how much alike her and this new guy are, and how much they are always laughing together something she never had with me. She also stated how she now realises how our relationship was so wrong.Is it possible to completly switch your emotions in 3-4 days? how could she say all of that when we were together for 2 years! we did laugh, she even described me as her best friend, lover and confidiante.She is now calling this guy all things she called me "gorgeous" etc and is desperate for all her friends to meet this guy and see how wonderful he is. Its not even been a week since her final email to me.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 July 2008):
OK, firstly you have no excuse for hacking into her emails. That is bad. Don't do it again.
Of course she hasn't gotten over you in 3 days! She's doing this because you rejected her. She's doing it to prove to herself that she could get another man and she's doing it to make you jealous.
She asked you to take her back because she loves you, you asked her to prove it and this is what she does.
Back away from this girl and let her have her space. She may realise she truly does love you and come back to you honestly and properly. She may not.
How long you wait for her to find that out is up to you.
Good Luck!! xx
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