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writes: Hi,I went out with this lad 3 times and I really thought I liked him but he messed me around, so I was the one who always broke us up. He keeps asking my friends out just to spite me and he's even told my other friends that he was messing around. The thing was I was in love with him (I know I was) but I've been trying to get over him for over a year not and nothing seems to be working. Help me get my life back on track and finally get over him. Please Help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): You went out with him 3 times, a year ago, and you're still "not over it" and asking for advice. Get out more and get a life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006): im in a very similar situstion except this has been going on for 3 years now, i truly wud end it all now and move on before this guy messes with your head anymore!!! easyer said than done i know but you will be much happyer in the future!!! just wish i cud take my own advice. take care x
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reader, bikiniilove_xX +, writes (19 June 2006):
im in a similar situation. i wont get into detail but i think that you should go for him. if you really love him, then i bet you can striaghten him out. give it a shot and if it doesnt work, i would get in another relationship or start a new hobbie, do whatever you can to forget about him if it doesnt work out in the end.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (19 June 2006):
 Why do you want to be with him when he is so undeserving of you?
You need to start looking at him for what he is - a liar, a cheat and a game player. Stop thinking about him being great and stop looking at him through rose coloured glasses.
I would also avoid spending any time with him, get rid of anything he gave you or you have of his and if your friends want to tell you gossip about him, just don't listen and talk to them about him. Just say "thanks, but not really interested, lets talk about something more interesting". The more you and everyone else talks and gossips about him, the harder it is to move on.
I think you also need some distractions and new interests and new friends. I would consider looking for something new to do after school or on the weekend. Depending on how old you are - this could be a part time job, a new sport, a new class, a new after school activity.
This will help you take your mind off him and concentrate on something positive where you might just learn a new skill or meet some new friends.
You sound fairly young so there are plenty of decent men out there and you have a tonne of time to find them. Don't waste your thoughts and tears on someone who can't even be honest. Don't think about him, don't talk about him and before too long he will be out of your head.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 hey huni
He sounds like a right prune to me leave him be show him ur not interested in him any more even if u r lol try and find sum1 new to concentrate on n when you have someone new make sure you rub it in this lads face n show him he cant bother you n e more gd look
Helen x
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