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30-35,
anonymous
writes:help..I'm love with a guy that has a history of cheating he cheated on his last girlfriend with his ex and and cheated on her with a mutual friend from before... Im wondering am i just another pawn in his belt buckle i am a virgin he knows that and we have never really been interested in each other till last year when i took him to my high school prom just as friends.. we kissed the night of prom and after that he fell in "love" with me... i didnt return his feelings until early this year after he wasnt showing me as much attention as he used to after he took me to prom.. I've always been attracted to him and many times since prom he has bothered me to kiss him again ive always told him NO! I like to believe i can change him cause im not like any of the girls hes dated and my family and his family are okish with us being together but im confused...but lately i feel like givin in... he's called me boring and a loser... at the end of the day i still dream and think about him what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): Please, please, please, do NOT give your virginity to this man!!! I can't stress enough how bad that would be. He would probably dump you as soon as it's over and that would traumatize you and endanger your ability to trust men in the future. It probably wouldn't feel good either because he is so selfish that he wouldn't be worried about how it feels to you, only his own pleasure matters to him.He obviously doesn't care about you or he wouldn't insult you to try and get his way, that is extremely tacky. Don't ever try to change anyone, the only time people change is when THEY want to, not when you want them to and change takes a long time and a lot of effort, even for minor things. Forget this guy and start looking elsewhere for a guy who is deserving and respectful of taking your virginity.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 September 2009):
He's calling you boring and a loser! Do you really want to lose your virginity to a man who has cheated on everyone he has been with and who then calls you boring and a loser? Seriously think about that. I'm not saying people can't change, but this guy doesnt' sound like he has and would much rather add another notch to his bedpost. Don't give into this one. Instead, wait until you find a guy who is interested in you and respects you. You'll be far happier and you won't end up hurt. x
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