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writes: i have deep feelings for my best friends husband and have had a affairs seen about july of this year and i just got married what do i do i love my husband but her husband makes me feel like a woman again what do i do please help me i dont know what to do anymore i dont feel bad for doing it that is the thing i like it yours truelyconfused
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reader, DreamMaster  +, writes (3 December 2005):
 I have no sympathy for you.
'You love your husband'?
You dont know the meaning of the word.
Why on earth did you get married? Here is some advice - get it annulled. You have no respect for him, and i can only hope you seperate before a child comes into the equation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2005): GEt out of that affair with him and tell his wife and your husband.That is so wrong of you two when you are married to someone else and so is he.Talk to your husband about how he makes you feel get help!You are going to destroy your friendship with your friend when she learns the truth.ALll I can say is back off!louise
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): How sad to read your posting. You have a problem and perhaps only a good, well qualified counselor can help you. For some reason, you've decided it's okay to have an affair with your best friend's husband. Then you marry your husband and still continue the affair? And you feel no remorse, no regret, no shame? Your marriage is now a place where your self-centered, meanness is really cutting loose, for how you are poorly treating those closest to you. I cannot emphasize enough to you, what an irresponsible, selfish thing-this is that you are doing. Get to that counselor and start the beginning steps of righting a wrong. Take full accountability for your actions in all this...take this opportunity to change yourself...and learn to give. When you put your time and commitment toward others you will find your life opening up in ways you never expected. Bank on it!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (2 December 2005):
 If you don't feel bad about it and in fact like it, then what's your problem? Some people are amoral and marriage vows are meaningless to them. Hope your husband and your "best friend" find out.
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