| A
female
,
*everly1
writes: My husband stays up late at night and all day on the computer on porn sites and expects me to perform as he has seen ( which most of the time it hurts me)and he saids I should be willing to do these things with him if I love him. He will not work and support this family do to his obsession. He looks for a job in between looking at porn or chat rooms. He tells me he is playing computer games. And he blames me. Telling me I do not want to send time with him or that I do not love him. I am now afraid to have sex with him, because I know he will hurt me. Now I have found pictures of himself nude on his computer. He saids it is just for himself. What should I do? I have a three year old son and very little money. And when I confront him on this he threatened to kill himself. Still blaming me!
View related questions:
chat room, money, porn, video games Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Angel ron +, writes (3 December 2005):
Sounds to me like he is a total mentalcase I think that he isa a disgusting man and behaving ina n appallling way towards you leave him immediately take your kids and get a quick divorce.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): THIS IS ABUSE. Please please head for the nearest womens shelter. This is totally unacceptable. He is raping you.......and he is a deviant sex pervert as well. Get out, get the kids out......report him to police.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): How difficult and sad for you, I am sorry. Many will claim otherwise, but I have never met a situation where long term pornography use, has improved the marriage bed. Pornography teaches people to consider sexual release to be the primary goal for lovemaking. The primary reason for lovemaking in marriage is to bond the relationship by close emotional and physical intimacy; orgasm is the bonus extra.
Your husband has a porn addiction that he's immersed himself in, and he no longer is functioning as a caring, loving husband or father. On top of that, he has made your sex life unbearable. There is no respect or love here, dear and you are being used as a "piece of meat". He's desensitized to the point where sex is just an act to satisfy his needs. Call the nearest family counselling office and get yourself in for advice and help. This will get progressively worse over time and I am very worried for you and your children. Seek all the outside help you can from family and trusted friends. This has to stop. Get some support and help for you and your kids...today!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): No offense but this guy sounds like a complete nutter...do what you have to to protect you and your child and get away from him now! Don't be a wimp and stay with this freak you need to be strong and take action immediately!
...............................
|
