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writes: Hi, I'm 20 and I have never had a proper relationship with a guy in the last two years, since I split with my boyfriend of a year. I don't have any feelings for him now but it did take me a while to get over him due to him being my first proper boyfriend.The thing is, no guys seem to ask me out and it's getting frustating as I know that I am attractive, funny, bright etc. I thought that when I started university I wouldn't have a problem finding someone, but things have just become more complicated.I met this guy that I really like, who I am friendly with, and after a few months of knowing him I knew that I was falling for him. So after a long decision (and thinking that I never actually get anywhere with guys) I told him this. It became apparent that he just recently split with his ex a few months back and finding it very difficult to move on.... but there is definite chemistry between us! We have got close on more than one occasion but nothing happened and we text and speak all the time.Many friends have told me that he's a sound guy but I should really just find someone else, but I always find it difficult to find guys that I like, and since this ordeal everyone just doesn't match up to this one guy. Should I wait and see what develops or am I hanging on to yet another dead hoper here?
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reader, QOTU +, writes (19 November 2005):
 You're not "another dead hoper"... Keep pursuing your feelings, and he'll come around. But make sure to give him some time to get over his last relationship first.
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