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Help! Where do I stand?

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Question - (23 September 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aribo158 writes:

Hi there.

I have known this guy for 18 months, we have been best friends and lovers. After 9 months he emigrated to Australia, and though I thought that was it he's come back once and I've visited him once, things have blossomed into true love. Long story short, I know desperately need to know where this leaves us as I'm in emotional limbo. Should I wait for him to call me and discuss, he knows I want to talk and I keep dropping hints, or else do I just call him? Or do it via MSN? I don't want to pressure him too much as he's not good at emotional stuff but how do I get us to talk? Thanks, it sounds so silly but its torturing me! X

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2009):

You consider it true love, but does he? And there's the problem in a nutshell. He might not be very good at talking about emotional stuff, but he's going to have to. I'm afraid you have to ask him where he sees this relationship going. There's no other way to be sure. x

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