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*argaret z
writes:hi dear friends, i'm new on this site and i need your help. After 6 months of dating my boyfriend and i broke up after a bad fight , i had trust issues following his cold behavior. The day we broke up he swore he wasn't cheating and things but i caught him flirting on messenger with a girl, that doesn't prove anything, maybe but still it wasn't correct. we stayed out of touch for 3 months then i got a text from him congratulating me on my graduation day! then 3 weeks later i texted him saying that i missed him and he said he does too and he never wanted to break up and he never cheated. fast forward we decided to meet in a month time for coffee cause i'm travelling right now, but after the contact between us i've been texting him daily cause i felt that we're kinda fixing things , he's replying nicely but he's not initiating although he showed care in his text saying that he's still crazy about me! he's replying warmly and nicely but i can tell something is not like before. Please dear friends help me out here, is he just being polite and civilized by replying or is he still into me? do you think he moved on already with someone else? his behaviour is a bit confusing. please help me.
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reader, margaret z +, writes (14 August 2011):
margaret z is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you Bernard :)
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reader, margaret z +, writes (13 August 2011):
margaret z is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank you kyle, but what if he doesn't initiate ? shall i forget about the whole thing and move on then? or it's best to still see him?
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reader, Kyle007  +, writes (13 August 2011):
You are just going to have to meet him and find out.
Before then, its probably best to withdraw a bit and see if he initiates. If he is so crazy about you, he will.
You might just not be giving him a chance to initiate. Think of it that way.
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