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*holelottarosie
writes:Hi i have been texting this guy i met on a nite out for the last two months its all goin well, i have met up with him a few times and we have gone for dinner ect and we have slept together. He is the one to text me every day so we talk all of the time. i would love to know where i stand with him?? what should i do... ask him?? and if so how do i put it??
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reader, wholelottarosie +, writes (19 July 2010):
wholelottarosie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is the one to txt me first thing every morring and i usually talk to him most of the day even after a nite out he txts me first thing in the morring
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reader, wholelottarosie +, writes (19 July 2010):
wholelottarosie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI only slept with him once and we have met up a couple of times after that and there has been no sex but it has been really good so i dont no !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): You gave him sex without the exclusivity of a relationship, where you stand is you are a sex buddy. He's texting you everyday, you and a bunch of other women. A guy who wants you for a girlfriend will step it up, he will call you, he will ask you for another date on the date he is with you on, he will see you every weekend, he will make his feelings known without you having to ask him....so stop putting all your effort into this one guy...date some others and if things don't move along with him you'll know.
Or you can simply ask him, but sometimes after only two months he may think you are being too clingy....too available, guys like the chase in the beginning...so let him chase, stop answering his texts...make him call you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
Ask him where he sees this relationship going, and listen carefully to what he says. That's the only real way. Just sit down with him and ask him where he sees the relationship going.
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reader, brooklynqueen  +, writes (18 July 2010):
There are a couple of things you can do. First dont make yourself available to him everyday. Say your busy sometimes. No man wants a women that is only into him. Makes you appear tooooo available. If you want to know and your texting that is a good way to ask, just ask. Do you see us dating for the long term. I would wait for a couple of months before doing this though. See how he acts. A man will always tell you what he wants by his actions or even sometimes by his words. For instance if he states he wants a "casual relationship" that means that he wants to date you and others too. If you cant reach him certain times like on the weekends and only at night usually indicates you are a booty call. If he always has to go at a certain time usually means he does not want to spend much time with you like when he says i have a meeting in two hours but meetings are usually when you are together. or he has to get up in the morning which states no spending the night. Men usually in some form or fashion let you know where they stand. Again decrease your time that you spend with him for a while. If he does not come after you in person meaning make time to spend with you in person. Then you will pretty much know where it is going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Stop having sex with him and see what happens...if he stops contacting or if the contact decreases, then you know that sex is all he wanted. No woman should have to ask a man where "they" are going. Honestly, two months is too early to know and I think you gave into having sex with him too early anyways..so stop that asap.
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