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writes:I have to make a choice between a crazy anime-obsessed girl my age who dropped out of high school and doesn't wear her shoes when she works behind the counter at Borders, and the valedictorian a year younger than me who is a little bit taller and thinks I'm funny and smart.. everyone tells me the valedictorian girl "can't stop talking about me" I have been rather emotionless the last few weeks so I do not know who I like... I invited the valedictorian over to bake some stuff last week and it was fun... I guess I just don't know... I ran into my dropout friend at graduation a few days ago and hugged her... she kissed me but I didn't kiss back because I was still undecided Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Just because she's a valedictorian doesn't make her better than the other girl. She may be a total toad, and have zero personality. The other girl sounds funner & more interesting to me. If you're 18-21 then you're probably not ready for a serious relationship anyways, so do what sounds best to you. Which girl would you rather be around? If you had a choice to be with 1 of the girls right now, which one would it be? Unless the dropout girl is on drugs or a heavy drinker then I don't see what's wrong with her just b/c she likes anime & not wearing shoes. Is she planning on getting her GED & going to college? That is what she should do.
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reader, deejuliet +, writes (12 June 2007):
 The answer is so very obviously the valedictorian. And that is not just because a valedictorian is eons better than a dropout. From the tone of your letter and the way you refer to them both it is obvious that that is where your heart lies. You just want someone to give you the little push in her direction. I am not sure what it is that is holding you back from that decision. There seems to be some guilt factor holding you back from that.
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reader, myp +, writes (12 June 2007):
 This is a question you need to answer yourself.
Which one can you be yourself with? Which one do you have the most fun with?
you should choose the one that makes you happy.
-Myesha
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): This is a question you have to depend on yourself to answer.
Which one do you really feel like you can be yourself with? Which one do you have the most fun with? You should choose the one that makes you happy.
-Myesha
Message me back and tell me how it goes
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reader, serenityjohnson +, writes (12 June 2007):
Well my adivce to you is to pick the girl who you like the most and who is most suitable (Valedictorian sounds more suitable) and you think you would have a better chance with..it seems to be that the valedictorian girl really seems to like...just follow your heart and choose you believe would treat you like you would like to be treated.
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