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writes:I have a friend that I have known for 9 years. During that time we have been through a lot together and our children have been great friends although they don't see each other much. The problem is that over the years I have noticed that when it comes to getting what she wants she is ruthless, as well as demanding and self-obsessed. She flirts with men heavily to get what she wants. She has even posted naked pictures of herself on her bedroom wall - she leaves the door open if I go to stay with my partner. She tries to build up tension between him and her by continually touching his arm, if she bends down she does it from the waist and sticks her bum in his face. She asks him how often he thinks about sex, with her tongue out touching her upper lip... She recently scared off her boyfriend who found her too demanding. Her previous husband was not giving her enough attention. I have avoided contact with her for a good while, now she is asking what is wrong. I feel sad because in some ways and for a while we were close. She is very hard work and I don't trust her anymore. I hardly think I should tell her exactly why I can't be her friend any more. My skin crawls at the thought of enduring her again in my home. I don't think she would want to hear. How can I end this gracefully?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): the best way to get stop her contacting you then is whenever she contacts you from now on tell her that you are busy. i have the same problem with one of my friends and my friends have advised me that when my so called friend gets in touch then to just have a very quick chat and then say that im busy. hopefully she should lose interest and try and annoy someone else. there is nothing worse then having someone around you that makes you feel uncomfortable and your instincts are usually correct.
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