A
female
age
51-59,
*oddess_110
writes:I am not sure how to regain trust in my relationship?My fiance was writing to his ex girlfriend a couple months ago, he says she owed him 200 dollars, when I accidentally seen the letter he was wishing her a happy birthday and asking her why she was not online anymore, so I am so confused?? He has since apologized and swears he was just looking for his money but I find I have NO trust in anything he says at this point, am i over reacting?
View related questions:
ex girlfriend, fiance, his ex, money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Ooops! Also, his comment about her being online means they have had their chats. I would have expected otherwise, I guess. Did you know about her existence? Did they stay friends?
A
male
reader, Danielepew +, writes (2 May 2008):
The story doesn't seem to add up. I know that sometimes people stay friends with their exes, but I assume that this debt, if it exists, is very old. Old enough for you to have met, liked each other, begun a relationship, and engage. I don't think that happened in, say, five weeks. So this is an old debt. And is it only now that he thinks about collecting that money?
And then, if that's what he wanted, why the wishes for a happy birthday and the comment about her being online?
I can't tell you what it is, but there's something going on.
...............................
|
