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I have become a cheater and I feel so guilty

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Question - (2 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have fell out with my bf of 3 years about 6 months ago and NEVER EVER cheated on him but since i fell out with him i hav slept with a few ppl and i have been with 2 different guys who have girlfriends and i know them!! i told no 1 but all my friends now know?? i dont know who told them and now am worried that i will get a reputation and/or the gf's will find out and i will get a well deserved smack for it!!

n i dnt want any lectures please i feel shit about already and its making me sick with worry!! x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008):

Thank you so much ur advice has help me alot

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (2 May 2008):

You are on the re-bound and have obviously got some issues from the break up with your Bf.

Be single for a while and get your head sorted out. You didn't force these guys to cheat on their girlfriends, but as you say it was wrong.

You are regretting it which means you know it was wrong and as long as you learn from your mistakes then you will be ok.

Take some time to yourself and figure out why you did it.

Don't worry too much about getting beaten up by these other girls. They will be too busy yelling at their boyfriends. But you could perhaps avoid them for a while if you are nervous.

Good Luck!! xx

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