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writes:My boyfriend of over two and a half years broke up with me out of the blue recently and he's excuse is that he hasn't been happy and he doesn't know if he can give me 100% in a relationship. But when I ask him questions about what went wrong with us he can't give me a straight answer and just tells me "I don't know". He tells me that he's having a hard time with our breakup and how this isn't easy and how he feels like he's losing a best friend. I would love to get back with him because he was an amazing boyfriend and we had a great relationship. But I don't know if he did this because he's feeling depressed or if he truly wants to breakup and never be with me again.
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reader, llifton +, writes (31 July 2013):
 i think you've gotten great advice so far. to tack something else on, though, i will say that i do feel for you. because it's only human nature to want everything explained to us in detail about what exactly went wrong and why. his vague explanation is leaving you with questions as to what exactly made him unhappy and what exactly did you do to make him feel this way. basically, you want more answers. unfortunately, you probably won't get them the way you'd like. you'll have to find the closure you need on your own and in your own time. you will eventually be okay. best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2013): It's someone else. Whenever a guy breaks up with you like that it's someone else.
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reader, LivingWithBadDecisions  +, writes (31 July 2013):
 i agree with iAHTHY because hes given you his reason but you dont like it so you are pressing for more and thats making him more unhappy.
Im thinking you will just have to accept it and move on.
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