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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a year now.. Everything has been PERFECT! I mean perfect... until I moved in with him. We didn't see each other any more or less but something wasn't right. I know I over-reacted alot but it seemed like he just didn't care about seeing me and didn't recognize that he was hurting my feelings. Eventually, we began fighting all the time. SO i moved out... thinking it was for the best. But the day I did, we agreed that we should "give each other some space". Now I miss him sooo much and he even gets jealous or worries about how I am. Should we just end it... or try to work through it?
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reader, DreamMaster  +, writes (1 December 2005):
 Hi,
Nearly EVERY relationship goes through a bad spell when you move in together, it is just part of the process of getting used to being in the same house,
Just because you fought a lot during this 'adjustment period' doesnt mean you will always fight, it just means you were both going through a tough period, and the only people you had to 'bounce' this off was each other,
In time this eases off, and you will find each others comfort zone.
You dont say how long you stayed in the house, if you were still fighting after 6 months I would have concerns, yes, but if it was only 6 weeks then you should have been more patient,
I would try to give it another shot - at least 6 months, if you are still arguing with each other after that amount of time, then maybe you might have to accept you have different living habits that arent compatible,
Its obvious you are mad about each other - just a pity no-one warned you about this early tough period, you just have to accept it as fact, and focus on the fact that you will get used to each other and be happy in the long term
Give him a ring, he misses you too
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