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writes: How do you keep the spark or chemistry alive in a relationship? Is there any advice you can give to a person who has gone through the mid-point of a relationship?
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reader, fairyangel +, writes (2 December 2005):
Little unexpected pleasant surprises always go down well, especially when you take the time and show you put some effort and planning into them.Simple things like love notes are great, and I have found packing a picnic supper with a bottle of whatever he likes to drink, leaving a sexy note and inviting him to join you at a selected spot, maybe a special place at the beach or park, that you have enjoyed together in the past, and waiting for his arrival, with a spread to welcome him.... to be very successful.This normally sets a lovely romantic atmosphere for the evening. I can also suggest a dress evening, where you tell your guy to go and dress in as little as possible and to use his imagination...then to meet you in the lounge, where you have done the same, and have the candles lit and snacks and drinks waiting... my hubby turned up in his socks, tie, and underpants...
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (2 December 2005):
i leave sexy notes for my b/f in unexpected places for him to find (pants pocket)he finds it once hes at work and he cant wait to get home. we also have sex games we play(you can get online or at novelty shops) they lighten the mood and make things intresting and fun. we have sex dice, and a couple board games. i also made my own i got a jar and we both wrote down things we like and different fantisies and folded them up and put them in the jar and everytime one of us does something nice ( he washes the dishes for me or cooks dinner)he gets to pick out of the jar. then we do whatever the paper says. the same goes for me if i do something nice for him. hope this helps you out some.
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