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writes:I need some help, my husband seems to want to know every little thing I am doing and when I don't tell him as I am busy doing something he will go out in a mood. He has been known to go to my mum and say all sorts so she rings me having a go at me. Why does he do this and what can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Well his obviously just being stupid and overprotective of you and u should tell him that your marriage is going to crumble if it carries on like this gd luck xxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (21 September 2009):
I advise you get really tough right now and scare him so much that he REALLY thinks twice about acting this way.
Next time he goes in one of his moods you tell him you have had enough of this. You didn't sign up to marry a controlling monster and you are off.
Then disappear for a day or two, go to your mum's and don't take his calls.
Let him have a think about his behaviour and I think he'll be a lot more happy to talk about this and come to some compromise.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2009):
Oh dear. He's a bit of a control freak. Which means that he's very insecure. You've got to tell him straight that if he continues this way, he'll have to get couselling. Whatever you do, no matter how much you love him, DO NOT take it, or it will get worse (a lot) and you'll end up very hurt. And make sure you tell him that it's got nothing to do with his mother and you will not listen to anything she says if she has a go. Men respond better to being but right on the spot. Be brave and lots of luck. xx
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