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He wants to have sex but I know he's a cheater

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Question - (20 June 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2012)
A female South Africa age 26-29, *re wa ipfi writes:

am 17 and my boyfriend want to have sex with me and I know his a cheater but he don't admit it and he always tell me that he don't want to lose me but I don't believe him and he don't want me to touch his cell-phone, do he really love me?

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A female reader, are wa ipfi South Africa +, writes (21 June 2012):

are wa ipfi is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks guys I dumped him you guys saved me and today I found him with other girl which hurt but I told my self to forget about him thanks again

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (21 June 2012):

Honeypie agony auntWhat do YOU want? You want to have sex with a cheater? Or wait til you find a man with some substance?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (20 June 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthe does not love you....

he's a cheater and a liar and if he leaves you for not having sex with him then you know he was just after the sex and you can say "good riddance to bad rubbish"

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A female reader, marjieex3 United States +, writes (20 June 2012):

He does NOT really love you. He is a cheater, if he really loved you he wouldn't even think about cheating on you. You should break it off, it will be hard but if you want to be happy then you will. You deserve someone who cares for you and has nothing to hide. You NEED to move on.

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A male reader, dougbcoll United States +, writes (20 June 2012):

dougbcoll agony aunt you say you know he's a cheater, and he wants to have sex. if that is true you know you cant trust him. that will more than likely mean he is out to get sex from you and other girls.

if you give him sex that will not make him love you, it will not make him love you more either. if he is a cheater he is using girls for sex, and that more than likely includes you also.

guys like that will tell a girl what they want to hear, they will give love to get sex.in the end all that type is interested in is what he can get from a girl.

find a nice guy that is not self absorbed "self centered",find a guy that is honest, caring,sharing, and has nothing to hide including his cell phone.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2012):

Wanting sex doesn't mean he loves you, he seems to be user of girls for that purpose. Don't let him use you for sex, get rid of him.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (20 June 2012):

CindyCares agony aunt No. You say you KNOW he is a cheater. So, if he is cheating on you , he clearly does not love you.

Maybe you don't have or you can't get actual proof that he is cheating. But it's still and always a bad idea to have sex with a man you don't trust 100%.

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A female reader, Ushley Philippines +, writes (20 June 2012):

Ushley agony auntA guy who truely loves you can wait for the right time for sex and if he loves you he will be loyal to you not to hide his phone from you.

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